Some of us
Some of us know what it’s like
to be called boring for cancelling plans
to be tired to the bone, no matter how much sleep we get
to be tired of speaking
to be tired of listening
to want others to leave so we can get back to reading our book
(snuggled up with a blanket and a hot beverage)
to read the same line over and over again
to wait for our thoughts to shut up
to wait for our heart beats to calm down
to wait for our hands to stop shaking
to lock ourselves in the bathroom and have a decent cry
to be haunted by shame and regret
(sorry, so sorry, I wish I had but I didn’t)
to smile at the mirror and try to cheer ourselves up
to hug ourselves to sleep
to feel lonely when preparing dinner
to feel lonely in a crowd
to feel lonely with our friends
to be in flight mode to avoid calls and messages
to be a psycho for the regular ones
to be a drama queen for those who have it all figured out
to be “just a phase” for the past few years
to be proud of having gotten out of bed
to be proud of facing one day at a time
to be proud of trying over and over again
to be proud of how far we’ve come, despite it all
and other people don’t.
Note: This poem is inspired by Rita Ann Higgins’ poem, “Some People”, introduced in Kate Clanchy’s book “How to grow your own poem”.
Temos que ter mais orgulho e saber que aos poucos, temos conquistas. Nem sempre é fácil ver.
Um abraço Ana, uma boa semana.
Sí, estoy de acuerdo contigo, Irina. Paso a paso. 😉 Un abrazo y feliz semana para tí tambien!